I am so heart sick of listening to my male friends go on and on about finding some random girl to sleep with and listening to my female friends talk about getting their hearts broken again and again. Something is very disjointed in our world.
I know that not all people are the same, but I believe that the vast majority are similar. It seems as though most of the time men want someone to play with for a while and women want to find out if he could be her future husband.
Man A sees woman B and thinks he likes her boobs and ass and would like to bed her; if it is good enough, maybe keep going back to her. Woman B sees man A and thinks he's handsome and would make cute babies, she may envision waking up with him in the morning, what it might be like to live with him, laughing with him, evaluate his hygiene, whether or not he is in the closet and even if she can take care of herself and prides herself on that fact, she will still try to figure out if he is capable of taking care of her.
Woman B decides go ahead and sleep with man A and decides he is a very good match indeed. Six days or six months down the road man A starts to get bored and begins looking for woman C while woman B is already in love. Women B, C, D, E, etc. all get their hearts broken and spend the next 5 years wondering what it was they did wrong and why nobody ever loves them.
Men! Even if a woman agrees that there are no strings attached and the two of you are just having fun, she is developing an emotional attachment to you and will be hurt if you leave or if she is not the only one you are having fun with; the movie Vanilla Sky is a perfect example. I have known many women who say to the world "if men can sleep around so can I" and then I listen to them as they cry, in private, about about not being loved.
Women! If it looks like a playboy and talks like a playboy... RUN!
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