My dad once told me, that everything a man does, he does with the expectation that it will attract the kind of woman he wishes to bed. The way he dresses, the car he chooses to drive and the job he chooses to get are all to attract women. I would like to know if this is true, because it seems to make sense. Alternatively, if this is true, isn't it odd that men complain that some women tend to be attracted to these things? Perhaps men are, in some ways, just as crazy as women.
Women are really the opposite. We don't do things simply to attract men, well... we do and we don't. If we buy a nice car, dress sexy, wear makeup or get a great job, it is mostly because it makes us feel empowered.
Here is where we start to sound nuts!
We want you to think we are attractive, but if we are not already interested in you, we don't really want you to express your appreciation. Too much attention from men ranges from annoying to creepy, even if we like you.
How do you know if we are interested? Well... you don't. One clue is that we will not look at you unless we either have a good reason or we think you are not paying attention; if you catch us, we will pretend to be looking at something else; if we lock eyes we will quickly look away. Another clue is if we touch ourselves, not in a sexual way! It would be more like touching sensitive parts of our bodies, such as the neck, lips or ears; this is especially true when you speak.
Really, if you pay attention to the hunting habits of cats, you will better understand women.
Women are really the opposite. We don't do things simply to attract men, well... we do and we don't. If we buy a nice car, dress sexy, wear makeup or get a great job, it is mostly because it makes us feel empowered.
Pay attention, but keep it to yourself.
Here is where we start to sound nuts!
We want you to think we are attractive, but if we are not already interested in you, we don't really want you to express your appreciation. Too much attention from men ranges from annoying to creepy, even if we like you.
How do you know if we are interested? Well... you don't. One clue is that we will not look at you unless we either have a good reason or we think you are not paying attention; if you catch us, we will pretend to be looking at something else; if we lock eyes we will quickly look away. Another clue is if we touch ourselves, not in a sexual way! It would be more like touching sensitive parts of our bodies, such as the neck, lips or ears; this is especially true when you speak.
Really, if you pay attention to the hunting habits of cats, you will better understand women.
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