From the Mind of a Woman - It's No Secret that We are Nuts!

Women are crazy and we will readily admit it; don't dare tell us that we are crazy, because we will spend the next week analyzing what you meant by that. Part of the problem is that men know they don't understand the minds of women and yet women believe they know exactly what men are thinking. We over analyze everything and forget that men don't.

Men think women are catty to all other women, this is and isn't the case; we are nuts, but there is method to our madness. Women love the companionship of other women, but this love turns to hate if we fear our relationships might be challenged.

Oh How Women Struggle to Understand Men!

People always glance at newcomers and tend to look longer if that person is attractive. Women will avoid looking at an attractive man in the presence of their own men, because we know what automatically runs through our minds; we can't help but evaluate the kind of mate that man would be. We assume our men know exactly what we are thinking and we don't want to hurt their feelings. So... when our men look at an attractive woman, we assume they are thinking the same thing and we think it means something that they don't hide it.

Essentially, we get upset because we find her attractive too and fear you might want her more then you want us. In fact we will evaluate her as a mate and then compare her with ourselves and try to figure out who you will like best. This inevitably results in fear and cattiness. It sounds stupid and crazy, but we can't help it; just like men can't help but look at a pretty woman.

I don't know how men think, but I suspect that all men look at women and if they are happy it doesn't mean anything at all. However, if we constantly make an issue of the looking and try to forbid our men from doing it, they will become unhappy and it will start to mean something.

The solution

Women, let it go, they can't help it.

Men, don't stare too long or our ability to let it go will fail.